i WISHED i HAD REALIZED THERE WAS AN ALTURNITIVE TO MY PROBLEM.,, i DIDNT KNOW HOW TO USE COMPUTER AT ALL HARDLY WHEN . i WAS FEELING TERRABLY BLOATED, AND KNEW IT WAS FROM PHIBROIDS, THAT WERE IN MY uTERUS GROWING. i LOOKED UP PHIBROIDS ON NET AND ABOUT THE ONLY THING i SAW ON y_TUB WAS HOW THEY TOOK OUT LARGE UTERUSES OUT FOR THEM AND THOUGHT THAT WAS WHAT i PROBABLY NEEDED, ESPECIALY SINCE I HAVE HEARD OF IT ALLOT WHEN YOUNG. yoU WERE SO RIGHT THE DOC. NEVER GAVE ME AN INFORMED CONSENT OR EVEN, TOLD ME OF AN ALTERNITIVE THING i COULD DO FOR THEM.. aLL HE KEPT DOING WAS ENCURADGING WAS TO HAVE IT OUT AN TELLING ME HE DIDNT THINK THIS OR THAT WOULD WORK BECAUSE OF MY AGE.. HE NEVER TOLD ME , i MAYBE DIDNT NEED TO DO IT.. AND NOW FOUND OUT THERE WAS ALOT OF OTHER THINGS i COULD HAVE TRIED.. hE SAID “WHY DONT YOU GET RID OF THIS HUGDGE MASS. hE SAID THEY PROBABLY WON’T SHRINK THAT MUCH AFTER MENO. nOT THOSE.. i HAVE FOUND OUT THERE WERE OTHER THINGS i COULD HAVE DONE BY RESEARCHING NET. i REALLY THINK A LIST OF SOME TYPE OF CONSENQUENCES OF WHAT COULD HAPPEN . WOULD ENCURAGE ME TO THINK ABOUT IT AND TO LOOK AROUND. i THINK DOCTORS DONT WANT YOU TO DO THAT CUZ. THEY MIGHT LOOSE BUSINESS.. BUT, AN IUD WITH PRODJESTRONE HORMONE MIGHT HAVE MADE THEM SHRINK OR THE LAZAR TREATMENT.. EVEN IF IT SHRANK JUST A SMALL AMOUNT I WOULD HAVE SAID NO.. TO HAVING IT DONE.. NOW I HAVE NUMBNESS IN MY BODY. AND WEIGHT GAIN PROBLEMS. i WAS NOT TOLD ABOUT ANY THING BAD THAT WOULD OR COULD HAPPEN.. BEFORE OR AFTER.. jUST A COMENT ONE OFFICE VISIT “WELL MAYBE YOU ‘LL BE HAPPY” WITH NO OTHER EXPLANATION.. SO I DIDNT THINK TO SAY WHY DID YOU SAY THAT.. i LIKED MY SELF JUST THAT MY UTERUS WAS TO LARGE .. BUT MAY HAVE SHRANK IN MENO .. i HAD A BUNCH OF PHIBROIDS INTRIMERIAL ONES , MY UTERUS WAS PRERECTLY ROUND WHEN I SAW PIC .. INTERNE SHOWED ME. iT HAD BEEN IN THE RIGHT PLACE. AND I WAS NOT IN MENO. PAUSE AT 56 YRS OLD AS MY MOM STOPED AT 62. THE DOC. ASKED ME HOW OLD I WAS, AND CERTAINLY I SHOULD BE IN MENO.. I HARDLY LOOKED AS IF I AGED , AND GUESS I WAS FULL OF ESTROGEN.. HE SAID NOT TO TAKE ANY HORMONS AFTERWARDS.. AND I COULN’T STAND THE LET DOWN FEELING.. SO I FOUND ANOTHER DOC. AND GOT SOME ANYWAY.. IT HAS HELPED SOME BUT I HAVE A HARD TIME WITH THE TINGLING FEELING IN RIGHT SIDE OF FACE {NUMBNESS } iT FEELS LIKE MY BODY IS BURNING , ESPECIALY AFTER EXERSIZE IN BELLY AREA, AND SOME EVEN DOWN ARMS.. i EXERSIZE AND REALLY WATCH MY DIET AND PUT ON WIEGHT ANY HOW , BEFORE i WAS LOOSING FIVE LBS A MONTH… i CAN SEE MY SKIN DRYING AND STARTING TO GET WRINKLES.. i HAVE SOME BACK PAIN.. i WAS TOLD THATS WHERE THE NERVES WERE CUT. i M GLAD YOU HAVE PUT STUFF LIKE THIS ON HERE BECAUSE , i WOULDN’T HAVE KNOWN HOW OTHER WOMEN FEEL AFTER WARDS,, i HAD ASKED MY FAMILLY AND HARDLY NO ONE TOLD ME OF SIDE EFFECTS EVEN A RN.. THAT I VISITED UP NORTH AT MY SISTERS PLACE.. SHE HAD SAID SHE HAD IT DONE SOMETIME AGO FOR A FEW VERY LARGE PHIBROIDS AND THAT WAS ALL SHE SAID. YA AND i LOOKED AT HER AND SHE LOOKED IN BAD SHAPE AND i BET ALLOT OF IT HAD TO DO WITH HAVING THE UTERUS REMOVED SHE LOOKED OLD AND HEAVEY IN WIEGHT GAIN.. SHE PROBALY DOESNT EVEN KNOW THAT HAVING THAT DONE MAY HAVE MADE HER WORSE. SHE DIDNT EVEN RIDE THOSE HORSES SHE OWNED AT MY SISTERRS BORDING RANCH. AND SHE HAD FOUR HORSES THERE.. AND ANSWERS MEDICAL QUESTIONS ON A PHONE AS HER JOB.
YES I AM ANGRY FOR NOT ANYONE TELLING ME MYBE I SHOULDNT HAVE THIS DONE.. OR TO CONSIDER SOMETHING ELSE EVEN WHEN i ASKED. tHE TEST INSIDE OF MY UTERUS WAS NEG FOR CANCER.. THE LADY AT THE SONGRAM MADE ME FEEL LIKE I WAS IN BAD SHAPE. AND EVEN THE INTERNEST UP STAIRS, i WAS SENT TO ,SAID” HAVE IT ALL CLEENED OUT… i WOULD WANT MY MOM TOO”. a YOUNG MALE DOC. HAD SAID THAT.. . i HAD NO ONE TRYING TO TELL ME HOW TO SOLVE THE PROBLEM. OTHER THAN WELL YOU NEED TO HAVE IT OUT . EVEN FAMILY . tHE ONLY ONE THAT MADE ME THINK WAS MY NINTEEN YEAR OLD DAUGHTER WHEN SHE SAID “, MONEY MOM..”. WHEN i WALKED IN THE FRONT DOOR. KNOWING AFTER MY HUSBAND TOLD HER. AND EVEN MY HUSBAND DID NOT LOOK UP SIDE EFFECTS OF A HYSTERECTOMY.. HE CAN USE THIS COMPUTER FORARDS AND BACKWARDS AND DOES ALL KINDS OF THINGS FOR HIMSELF. BUT NOT ONE THUGHT OR CARE ABOUT ME.. AFTER I HAD FIVE OF HIS CHILDREN AND HELPED RAISE OUT GRANDAUGHTOR. EVEN NOW HE DOEN’T WANT TO HERE ME TALK ABOUT IT BECAUSE HE SAYS WHAT CAN YOU DO NOW. ? HE JUST DOESNT SEEM TO WANT TO HERE ABOUT IT.. BUT DID TELL ME ONE HORABLE STORY A MALE FRIEND HAD TOLD HIM ABOUT WHAT HIS WIFE WAS LIKE AFTER SHE HAD IT DONE.. SHE EVEN WAS A PROFESTIONAL . A VETENARIEN. DOG DOC. SHE HAD A PERSONALITY CHANGE, AND WAS NO LONGER INTERESTED IN SEX AT ALL.
I HAD ASKED MY DOC. ABOUT THAT,BECAUSE IT WAS IMPRORTANT TO MY HUSBAND STILL AND HE JUST SAID , ABSOLUTLY NOTHING.. BUT BET IF IT WERE HIS WIFE , HE WOULDNT LET HER HAVE IT DONE.. SO WHY DO THEY NOT TELL US ? tHATS WHAT GETS ME. WHEN HE JUST SAID TO ME , WELL MAYBE YOU’LL BE HAPPY.. WAS I SUPOSE TO BE ABLE TO MAKE A DECITION OUT OF THAT GENERAL COMENT OR WAS IT TO TAKE THE GUILT AWAY FOR HIM LIKE HE HAD TOLD ME.. I GUESS WERE SUPOSED TO READ BETWEEN THE LINES.. WELL WISHED I NEVER CAME BACK .. HE WAS AN OLDER DOC. AND DIDNT THINK THE OVERIES WERE WORTH ANYTHING.. I DID READ OR PIC UP ON THAT THAT THEY DO GIVE LIFE LONG SOMETHING AND HIS COMENT WAS WHEN HE WALKED OUT THE DOOR WAS NOT MUCH.. HE DID NOT WANT TO SAVE THEM. THEN WHEN I WNET TO ANOTHER DOC AFTER THE PROCEDURE HE TOLD ME WELL IT WAS CUSTOMARY FOR DOCS TO REMOVE THEM FOR ANYONE UNDER 45.. YRS OF AGE AND SAID HE WOULD HAVE LEFT THEM. FOR ME.. i HAVE THE FEELING IF i GOT OTHER OPIONONS , I WOULD HAVE FOUND SOME DOCS NOT ENCURAGEING ME TO HAVE IT OUT AND WELL WHY DONT YOU DO THIS OR THAT.. PERHAPS OTHER PLACES THAT COULD HAVE SOLVED MY PROBLEM A BIT.. lIKE MEYO CLINIC. THAT IS USING THE NEW EQUIPMENT , I THINK MIR AND LASAR TREATMENT.. YOU JUST LAY ON THE TABLE AND ZAP. IT IN RIGHT PLACES.. EASY.. ANYTHING THAT WOULD HAVE SHRANK EM A BIT.. THERE WERE SO MANY , IM SURE THAT SOME WERE NOT THAT BIG AND WOULD HAVE SHRANK. BUT YOUR RIGHT AN SIMPLE iud doesnt charge much… mine was just a bunch of phibroids….but i did look like i was six months pregnant.. i wasnt realy that much over wieght.. think the uterus was bloating and i was not exercising.. that made it hard to live with.. When i went swiming in the Ocean i noticed the pull of water or moving around made it much smaller.. i told the doc . but he didnt even look at my blelly, like the apt . was set . and didnt want to change it. Well thanks for listening .. yes I think if we change the laws that a concent of being imformed ,.. would definetly be well worth fighting for..and should be done. It will make women think about looking into the latter technology of checking out to an alternitive.. You have to be smart enough to find the person doing that typ of needed service.. Now I have to live with this terrable conquenses for the rest of my life, i notice i sleep allot. and dont think its deprestion. its the chemical change.. from having that out.

Thank You