The Fallen Giant

Last Sunday while I rested in bed, a thunderclap shook the walls behind me and made the entire house vibrate.

I didn’t know it yet, but lightning had struck a large tree in our yard.

It’s become an object of fascination as well as a huge plaything for the kids.

It’s hard to appreciate how massive it is, and how high up the kids are when they walk up the trunk to the branches, from the pictures.

The only bad part about it? It landed smack on top of Sadie’s garden, which she has been diligently working in for weeks.

Once again someone is trying to tell me that gardening is NOT one of my core competencies!

But believe it or not, after some digging around, Sadie spotted her tomato plant with a small green tomato on it!

Somehow we will manage to crawl under the branches and dig it out so we can transplant it.

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Monday Musings

Most bloggers post their “links” posts on the weekend. But Saturday was busy and Sunday… well, I laid around and  couched out all day with my teething, runny nosed 8 month old while hubby had the other kids.

It was wonderful.

It’s so great to be able to spend some time alone with my little one, just showering her with all my attention.

Saturday we took the family to see Life of Pi at the dollar movie (aren’t those great when you have a bunch of kids?!). If you haven’t seen this movie yet, you MUST. The adults and kids alike loved it, which is a tall order for a movie. Although I must say I was a wreck at the end, in the last 5 minutes after Pi revealed… well, I won’t spoil it. (If you’ve seen it you know what I’m talking about.) I’m intent on reading the book now too.

Speaking of being a wreck, the newest episodes of Call The Midwife are up on the PBS website. Puddles. Puddles I tell you! I can’t watch that show without sitting in a puddle of tears. Does that show affect you that way?  I guess I’ll always be a sucker for birth. Apparently I’m not alone in that because one of the producers of the show said that the male actors leave the set with big tears rolling down their faces. They work with tiny, days-old newborns and the birth scenes just get to them.

I enjoyed this article in defense of mommy blogs. Be proud of your mom blog!

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The Day I Left My Life Behind

No, I’m not having an existential crisis.

I left my NOTEBOOK at OfficeMax.

When I realized what I’d done, there was a moment of panic.

My small notebook contains my life.

Everything is in this small notebook.

I keep a list of words I want to remember and use. Seriously, I’m not happy unless I can use tableaux or chits properly in a sentence.

I keep my to-do lists in here. Blog posts I want to write, along with notes.

I write down lists of things I need to purchase. I have next year’s homeschool curriculum planned for each kid in it.

I track my life in this notebook. A man I admired greatly once told me that what you measure, you can improve. So I write down every dollar I spend. I keep track of my grocery spending so I stay in budget.

I keep a gratitude journal in this small notebook. I write down things the kids do that make me smile.

If I have a problem, I brainstorm solutions in my notebook. I set goals and make plans on how to achieve them.

I take notes in it on books I’ve read, points I want to remember.

In an era of digital everything, I prefer the ease and simplicity of paper and pen. There’s just something sensual (and, for me at least, more meaningful) about writing things down.

I’ve been keeping a notebook like this for years, and it’s part of how I stay sane and organized in the midst of a busy family. When I use up all the pages, I start over. My notebook isn’t much to look at. The spiral is all bent out of shape and it has coffee stains on it, but it’s very important to me.

What about you? How do you organize your thoughts?

 

 

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Food Waste Friday

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This was my first week of incorporating ways to reduce food waste.

I did… eh… not so hotra.

As it turns out, The Frugal Girl hosts a weekly “Food Waste Friday” where people can be held publicly accountable for the amount of food they waste.

Ulp.

I did manage to eat leftover oatmeal for breakfast (and to sneak a little of it into a casserole I made, nobody noticed!). I added to my freezer stash of “someday stock”. I kept my list of “remember to use me!” items updated.

But there were several unhappy faces on that list as well, because I wrote down the stuff I DID throw out, namely:

  • About a half pound of grass fed liver – yikes. I used some of it in Cajun Dirty Rice (the kids ate it and nobody cared about the liver), but the rest? Oops.
  • An entire carton of cottage cheese. I was planning on making this breakfast casserole, but I haven’t been energetic enough in the mornings to put that together. In fact, my 12 year old son has been making breakfast 3 times a week.
  • A couple of potatoes – weird, because we love our potatoes around here.
  • Half a green pepper – it simply got lost in the fridge door.

Folks, that’s about $10 worth of food. Double ulp. That’s $40 a month. That’s…. a meal at a restaurant, which would be far more fun than throwing food out.

This weekly accountability thing is great. As one of my favorite authors, Laura Vanderkam states, it’s good to make laziness embarrassing. Also – my husband reads my blog! ;-)

What I Learned

There are a few things I will do differently now.

When I buy liver, I’m going to immediately divvy it up into one cup containers after putting it through the food processor (this, incidentally, is my secret to getting it into the kids each week: pulverize and hide it in ground beef!). No excuse for that half a green pepper, next time it will go into the freezer instead. And I need to be more realistic about what I’ll actually cook when I make my menu. Lately I’ve been quite sleep deprived and a complicated breakfast just ain’t gonna happen.

What do you do to avoid food waste?

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Little Men, Little Women

Siblings in a large family definitely have an advantage when it comes to learning about gender differences.

Consider the following episodes.

I’m currently reading Swiss Family Robinson aloud to my 12 year old son. Sometimes I read while I’m putting the two youngest down for a nap. (Two birds, one stone.) It’s sneaky because the toddler doesn’t realize she’s being lulled to sleep. So yesterday I asked Julien to bring the book to my room.

He forgot.

After I emerged from my bedroom, two casualties sprawled out on my bed, I asked him why he didn’t come in with the book in hand.

“Mom. (He places one leg up on a chair.) There’s something I’ve got to tell you about men. Or, there’s something I’ve got to tell you about ME. When you ask me to do something, a) I might be busy and don’t want to stop what I’m doing, b) I may be really comfortable where I’m sitting and relaxing or c) in 5 to 10 seconds, I forget.

Laughing uproariously stifling giggles, I replied:

“Actually, Julien, you DID just tell me something about men.”

Scene Two:

10 year old Ilana, whose job it is to unload dishes from the dishwasher (and it’s her big brother’s job to load), begins loudly and excitedly fussing at him for putting pots and pans in the dishwasher.

“Julien! Stop putting pots and pans in the dishwasher! They don’t get clean! Just LOOK at this dirty pan! WHAT is it doing in the dishwasher??!”

She stomps out of the kitchen. At this point I tell him:

“Julien, here’s something you need to understand about WOMEN. Sometimes, you just need to let them vent. Don’t argue. Just let her vent.”

He asked for it.

 

 

 

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Sunday Smatterings

After reading What the Most Successful People Do on the Weekend and as I spoke of in this post, we’ve been working on making our weekends better. For the first few months after the baby was born, I felt too tired to do anything exciting. We did mostly chill things like hanging out at the playground or taking the kids to the guitar store. But now that my energy has picked up and we’re all finally well, hubby and I have been planning things better.

Last weekend we hit up the Renaissance Festival. The kids have a blast dressing up, and there’s cold beer so the adults are happy. Our oldest tried his luck at busking. Note: Do not adjust your screen settings. Those are not his real ears.

I didn’t even go last year because Ruby was not yet 2 and therefore not old enough to enjoy the festivities (just old enough to be hot and bothersome) and I was 11,000 weeks pregnant. This time Ruby had a blast and the baby was outside my body and happy to be toted around in the sling so it was perfect. Here’s Ruby dressed up as the tiniest Shogun.

The best thing about the Renaissance Festival is that if you are a nursing mom, you’re set. Nobody bats an eye if you nurse the baby because there are heaving bosoms everywhere around you anyway.

This weekend we hit up a local amphitheatre and enjoyed a production of “Thoroughly Modern Millie” JR. The Junior means that the actors were aged 9-18. It was great. Even our most musical-phobic son enjoyed himself more than he would ever care to admit.

What did you do this weekend?

 

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Ways to Reduce Food Waste

I’m making it a goal to reduce our family’s food waste.

I do several things in an attempt to keep our grocery budget reasonable yet as healthful as possible. I do some shopping at ALDI. I carefully meal plan each week. We eat meat in small portions and focus on cheaper ingredients. We eat leftovers for lunch and sometimes dinner. I cook everything from scratch. I save bread crumbs in the freezer for casserole toppings, veggie scraps and meat bones for broth.

Still, I can definitely improve, especially in the area of wasting food. An embarrassingly large amount of food is tossed out each week in my home. I literally cringe inside when I have to throw away food. It feels immoral to me, especially when I know the problem is poor planning on my part.

We decided to sign up for a vegetable share from our favorite farmer. This is the same farm from where we get our raw milk, eggs, sausage, beef and sometimes chicken. Today was the first day we got our produce box.

I don’t want one tiny bit of this organic, local food to go to waste. 

Here are some ways I’m planning on eliminating food waste in my home:

Freeze (Instead of Refrigerating) Unused Food and Leftovers

I can’t remember where I first heard this tip, but I credit the person with being a genius. Food that’s placed in the fridge is often forgotten, or it looks a little yucky or questionable by the time you get around to reheating it. If it goes straight into the freezer when you do your post-meal cleanup, you can buy some time!

I’m really, really guilty of forgetting about leftovers in the fridge so this is a very important one.

Leftover Night

The other day I declared it “Bits and Pieces” for dinner, and we had a trip around the world, culinary style. There was leftover Indian Lamb Sag, leftover Chinese take-out, and leftover enchiladas. It was a big hit!

Planning this into the menu weekly or biweekly is the key. My kids and husband aren’t picky about eating leftovers, but I think adding something fancy like a dessert will increase the “wow” factor.

Organize The Fridge

I’m in the habit of cleaning out the fridge before I shop each week, but that’s not enough… because cleaning it out means throwing stuff away. :-(

I need to work on keeping the fridge more organized. I’ve created an area for leftovers that I don’t want to freeze (usually, things I know we’ll eat for lunch the next day).

Also, I’m putting a piece of paper on the side of the fridge with a list of things I don’t want to forget to cook. Nothing’s more depressing than wilty veggies or moldy berries.

Getting the produce box is exciting for me because I know I’m supporting several local farmers, as well as increasing the variety of vegetables I eat. This week we got spring mesclun mix, pecans, turnips, collard greens… and I’m a teensy bit embarrassed to admit it, but some kind of greens that I don’t even recognize! Nevertheless, they were delicious cooked with a little bacon, onions, olive oil and tossed with apple cider vinegar. :-)

How do you reduce food waste in your kitchen? 

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Minimalist Home School Supplies

When it comes to school supplies, I’m definitely a minimalist. I would much rather spend more of my homeschool budget on books for the kids to read, and field trips, than fancy schmancy school supplies that will mostly end up being clutter.

I think often of people who are admired in our culture, and how little they had by way of “school supplies”. Laura Ingalls,  beloved American writer, had a piece of chalk (one piece), a slate that she shared with her sister, and just one or two good books, one being the Bible. Abraham Lincoln read Aesop’s fables over and over because it was the only book he had, and he did math by “writing” sums on a shovel (with what… a piece of coal? A stick burned at the end? I’m not sure).

My point is that we don’t need a lot of “stuff” in our home school classroom. A few things you don’t need:

  • Math manipulatives. School supply stores are full of tubs of doohickeys and tchotchkes you can purchase for use as math manipulatives. Today my 1st grader (and her 2 year old sister!) did their addition and subtraction work with … navy beans. You can use raisins or nuts (fun because you can eat them after a correct answer!), Lego pieces, small toys, gewgaws, knickknacks, baubles, thingamajigs, or any other small doodads lying around your house… and I’m sure you have plenty of those!

There are a few things that area fun and helpful however. Here are some of our favorites:

Mechanical Pencils

I prefer these over regular pencils because they don’t need to be sharpened. Pencil points breaking, needing to hunt down a sharpener, the accompanying mess… it’s a distraction.

Post-Its and Post-It Flags

I find uses for these every day. The flags are great for keeping your place in teacher’s guides and student workbooks. They don’t rip the paper. They don’t fall out like bookmarks. They don’t damage the spine like shoving a pencil in there would. When you pick up the book, you can turn immediately to the spot you’re starting at that day.

The multiple colors are great for keeping track when you’re teaching two kids out of the same book, or for quickly flipping to a section you need (like instructions, index, or the answer key).

One Homeschool Binder

Some home schooling parents are big binder freaks. To each his own, but I’ve never been big on having a ton of binders. I don’t save schoolwork, for one. I find that it’s immensely satisfying to throw stuff away at the end of the day. It has a finality to it. The kids love ripping pages out and tossing them.

My oldest son has a writing notebook that he uses for Writing With Skill (Susan Wise Bauer’s suggestion), and a history notebook that he writes test answers in (so he doesn’t mark in the book, saving me money when the next kid uses it). He also keeps a Literature notebook (also Susan Wise Bauer’s suggestion, per The Well Educated Mind), where he keeps notes about the books he’s reading.

Some children, however, like to have a binder to keep their work. My 9 year old daughter is the only child who enjoys doing this, so I let her. She likes to add additional stuff to her binder, like extra material she prints out from the Internet, stories she writes, etc. (This is work that she isn’t required by me to do, but does on her own.)

I do have a homeschool binder… just one, for myself. I keep stuff in it that I need to have at my fingers each day, all in one place. I wrote about creating a homeschool binder here. It has answer keys, our daily and weekly schedule, and other goodies that I’ll actually use.

Notebooks and Composition Books

Of course, we buy these by the caseload when they go on sale super cheap! There is never, ever enough paper in a home school household, it seems. So I stock up when the various stores have them as loss leaders for .01 or .05 each, and buy enough for the whole year.

Emergency Chocolate and Wine

For mom, of course! I get these two cheap at ALDI.

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First World Problems

Or, The Lesson of the Laundromat

Unlike a lot of cultural memes, I’m glad the phrase First World Problems has been absorbed into the vernacular. I’m not sure how or when it became a “thing”. Maybe this guy, whom my kids enjoy watching, came up with it.

Anyway, around my house, when the phrase “first world problem” is lobbed at an offender, it serves as a quick reminder to have a little perspective.

It goes something like this:

“Ugh! My laptop is taking forever to load this site.”

…… “First world problem!”

“I’m the only person who refills the water filter pitcher!”

…. “First world problem!”

“It’s hard getting the rind off this ($7 a pound Trader Joe’s) gouda cheese!”

… “First world problem!”

You get the drift.

So this week I have no washing machine. The thing has apparently decided it’s had enough of being run 3-4 times a day and just up and quit on me. The landlord is being curiously silent about the matter, probably figuring that he didn’t sign up for this (when we moved in we only had 5 children, and he’s already replaced the dishwasher and dryer). We think he wants to get rid of us.

So while we search Craiglist for a suitable model, we’re slumming it. Which means taking laundry to the clean, well lit and air conditioned coin laundry down the road.

You know what I think?

Washing machine ownership is overrated.

When I was a single lady with 4 kiddos, there was a period of months in which I didn’t own a washer and dryer. And aside from the budgetary issues associated with dropping $10 a week at the coin laundry, I learned to enjoy the routine.

Think about it. You take ALL your laundry and fill several washing machines at the SAME time. 23 minutes later, you throw ALL your laundry into dryers. 45 minutes later, several loads emerge. You call all hands on deck to fold. In and out in 2 hours – and the laundry is DONE for the WEEK.

Owning 4-6 washing machines isn’t something the average family is likely to do. But think of how much faster it is to batch this activity instead of spreading it out, one measly load at a time.

Also, there is laundry cart Olympics.

I'm so glad that at almost 15, he's not too "cool" to enjoy this.

 

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