Meal Plan 4/16

I tried several times to sit down and make a meal plan for this week, but I was feeling so nauseous I couldn’t bear to think about food. So I decided to outsource the task and ask the family to do it! I told them to write down on a piece of paper 5 or 6 meals they’d enjoy eating.

You know what’s funny about this? Whenever I’ve gotten their input, they always pick the same 10 or so meals… and they’re typically things that are simple, easy for me to prepare, and often quick too.

In my family at least, I’ve noticed that…

Kids and men have pretty simple tastes, it’s us moms that complicate things by trying to be fancy all the time.

Here’s what we’re eating this week:

 

 

- Roast chicken with carrots and broccoli, mini baguettes

- Chicken enchiladas and black bean mango salad

- Caleb’s famous homemade pizza, green salad

- Sloppy Joes and red potato salad

- BLTs with mango cucumber salsa and organic corn chips

A few ways I’m making this menu healthier and cheaper:

  • Buying a whole chicken (organic, it’s on sale this week) to roast instead of chicken parts, and using leftovers for the enchiladas. Bones will be made into broth.
  • The enchilada sauce is homemade.
  • Mangoes, avocados, tomatoes, and red potatoes were all on sale – these ingredients will be used several times
  • My Sloppy Joes recipe is made with grass fed beef and lentils to stretch the protein. Our beef comes from a local farmer we trust. No pink slime there!
  • Caleb’s pizza crust is from scratch, so it’s super inexpensive and has no preservatives or other yucky ingredients.

Do you ever ask your family for input when you’re creating meal plans?

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Bits and Pieces

 

Can the doggies come out to play?

- Every Mom can relate to this post @The Bad Home Cook on “My Trouble with Socks“. Too funny!

- I liked what The Frugal Girl had to say about “Earn More or Save More – do we have to choose?

- As if the topic of nutrition weren’t confusing and full of contradictory information enough for your tastes, here is the latest I came across: You know that natural bacon seasoned with celery salt you’ve been buying to avoid nitrites? That’s another thing that is bad for you, according to Kitchen Stewardship. Is anyone else just about ready to give up?

- I wrote an article for Real Life Solutions about How to Wear Your Baby Safely.

- And an article for Family Foodies about How Busy Moms Can Make Meal Planning Easier

Any great articles you’ve come across recently in your blog hopping?

 

 

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The girls enjoyed a barefoot tea party at their grandma’s house last week.

I wonder if Queen Victoria ever took her tea barefoot?

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Ruby’s first popsicle of the season. Actually, her first popsicle ever. Who can resist the siren call of the Ice Cream Truck? It was so hot that day at the park, I couldn’t say no!

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What happens when you have a very sleepy toddler who resists taking a nap? At around 4:30 she pulled her shirt down for some strange reason, laid down on the rug and fell asleep!

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A family of 9 goes through a lot of toilet tissue. We’ve started buying it in bulk at the office supply store. For some odd reason, I couldn’t help snapping a picture.

That’s how we roll, folks.

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Make Postpartum Life Easier: Kitchen Edition

After this baby arrives, I don’t want to spend a lot of time in the kitchen.

 

At least for the first few weeks, I don’t want to cook.

And I don’t want to clean the kitchen either.

There will be a newborn head to sniff, endless diapers to change, a milk supply to establish, naps to take, walks to go on. Not to mention plenty of loving and lap time for my 2 year old. Keeping yourself fed in those early weeks is a job in itself. I’m always ravenous when I have a new nursing baby.

I have a few tricks up my sleeve to make those postpartum weeks a little easier.

* Stockpile Freezer Meals

I’ve never done freezer cooking or once a month cooking before. But in my last month of pregnancy, I’m going to cook a couple dozen main dish meals and store them in my freezer. I don’t have a stand alone freezer, just the skinny little side-by-side next to my fridge. Which means I’ll also need to clean out my freezer and use up some of the stuff that’s in there to make space.

(Do you have any favorite freezer friendly recipes? Please let me know in the comments!)

* Buy (gasp!) Disposable Products

We use real plates, microfiber cloths for cleaning, and cloth napkins at the table around here. But for the first few weeks postpartum, the green police won’t get me if I go disposable. My sanity is more important. (Besides, using cloth diapers and cloth mama pads kinda balances it out, right?)

So as not to shock my grocery budget too much, I’ve been buying a little of this kind of stuff at a time as I see great deals. (Since loading the dishwasher and doing laundry are actually two of my kid’s chores, this tip won’t really lighten my load. But if the kids have a little less work to do they can help me with other things that are usually my job.)

* Enlist Hubby’s Help

I asked my hubby if he would cook a couple of nights a week. He enjoys grilling out, so that’s good for one weekend dinner. There are a couple of other meals he likes to make (sausage and cabbage, burritos), so I told him I’d be sure to have those things available so he can work his magic in the kitchen.

My oldest has become adept at making homemade pizza, so I might put him on that once a week.

* Ask Friends for A Casserole Shower

I don’t want a baby shower, but a friend keeps insisting on doing something for me. I asked her to host a casserole shower, where everyone brings a meal for my freezer. When Ruby was born, a few friends brought me dinner afterwards, which was wonderful. But it’s more convenient for them and for me if it’s already at my house when baby arrives, no?

* Encourage the Kids To Cook Breakfast and Lunch

Y’all know I’m all about kids cooking. They are all (except for Ruby, she isn’t expected to cook for herself since she’s only 2. Her time will come though!) capable of making their own breakfasts and lunches.

I normally cook a hot breakfast every morning, but for awhile they’ll be on their own. Ditto for lunch. I’ll be sure to stock up on things I might not ordinarily buy to entice them a little. (Like organic frozen waffles, maybe even cinnamon rolls from Whole Foods. Or maybe I’ll have a baking day where I make waffles and freeze them myself.)

I also plan on making hearty breakfast muffins (like my favorite bacon/egg/cheddar coconut flour muffins), waffles and other breakfast foods that freeze well in big batches and… well, freezing them. Homemade granola too.

What kind of things did you plan to make postpartum life a little easier? Do share!

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Meal Plan 4/9

This week I tried out a new meal planner called Build A Menu to prepare my shopping list. I’ve used E-mealz in the past but ended up cancelling my subscription, simply because I wanted more flexibility in my meal plan.

 

I like Build a Menu for this reason. Instead of giving you a meal plan that you download and print, take it or leave it, it allows you to choose the recipes you want from a list.

Creating a meal plan is a good use of my time since there are so many benefits of doing so, but sometimes it’s nice for some of the work to be done for you! This week I was feeling busy and mentally drained, so I  really enjoyed using the site to save time and energy.

These recipes are based on ingredients currently on sale at the grocery store you choose, meaning you will save money using these recipes. Currently those offerings include Kroger, Whole Foods, WalMart, Safeway, HEB and Fred Meyer, as well as “any” store. That’s somewhat disappointing for me since I shop at ALDI and Publix almost exclusively. The good news is they will begin to offer Publix lists in May.

I was a bit concerned about using the “any store” recipes since I was planning on shopping today at ALDI and they have less selection than other stores. But, no worries. I found every ingredient I needed for the meals.

You can choose up to 7 main dish recipes (as well as side dishes, snacks, lunch and breakfast and a special kid’s recipe) in several categories: Family friendly, Low carb, Gluten free, Vegetarian, Low fat/Diet, and Paleo. There are also a smaller selection of recipes in these categories: Slow cooker, Grill, Manly meals, Super salads, and Crowd pleasers (feeds 8-10).

The site also tells you approximately what the recipe will cost to make, another feature that can really help you save money on groceries.

I like that you can immediately click on the recipe to see the ingredients. This way you know you’ll like it before getting locked into choosing it. I always click to preview the recipe to make sure it doesn’t call for any junk or convenience food ingredients. So far I’ve been happy with the healthfulness of the recipes I’ve selected. They’re “clean”, whole foods recipes with pronouncable ingredients. The only boxed items were the pasta. (In contrast, I found that some of the Emealz recipes were too junky for my preference.)

Once you choose your recipes you can then print them out, as well as a separate shopping list. I found the site very easy to use, and it took me only about 15 minutes to create my first menu. For me it’s a time savings not having to pore through Evernote or my cookbooks.

I like that the site gives a portion of its proceeds to charity. At $8 a month, it costs a little more than some menu planners but I think it’s worth it for the benefits I mentioned above.

Here’s what’s on the menu this week, a la Build A Menu:

Dinners:

  • Thai Basil Chicken (Side: rice)
  • Fish Tacos (cabbage slaw)
  • Cheesy Broccoli Pasta (green salad)
  • Slow Cooker Pasta Figioli (ciabatta loaf)
  • Beef and Pasta Vegetable Casserole (strawberry shortcake)

I could have chosen more recipes, including breakfast, but I was in a hurry to get out the door grocery shopping. You can give Build a Menu a spin for free to see how you like it.

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Bits and Pieces

Yesterday the kids and I went berry picking. In about 30 seconds, I realized why farmers traditionally had large families. These little people are really good (and fast) at picking! When the owners of the farm warned us that a full bucket cost around $20, I realized it would take my 6 about 10 minutes to pick our fill.

"Please, no pictures."

The weather ended up being unseasonably cool. After two weeks of 80+ degree weather, the chill was a shock. We all got out of the car shivering. Fortunately I had a bag of stuff slated for Goodwill in the back. I managed to find a cardigan or long sleeved shirt for the girls to wear.

This was a fun outing for the kids, since they got to see some friends and play at the park after. But this week has been a little hard on me. Ruby was sick with some type of mystery fever, so for 3 nights I got little sleep (she had no other symptoms, still not sure what it was). Hubby worked late two nights this week and that’s hard on me in my current state. I also had 3 bad afternoons where the nausea kept me from being as productive as I usually am.

I took off for a writing break at a coffee shop, where I’m sitting in the sun and getting some work done. I’m fortunate that I love what I do to earn money. It feels like a break. :-)

A couple of posts I enjoyed this week from around the web:

- I loved this post on Keeper of the Home with 31 Uses for Mason Jars. I love Mason jars (actually, any glass jar) too. They have such a nice minimalist asthetic. I use them for drinking (a quart jar helps me drink  more water), food storage, storing homemade skin care products, to hold pencils and pens, to culture kefir, and as vases.

- 5 Ways to be a Happier Mom, Today. This is a lovely post by Meagan of Happiest Mom. I find that sometimes when my kids are getting on my nerves, the answer is not to run away from them, but rather try to focus on them totally, at least for a short period. (Similar to tip #5) When their buckets are filled, I feel less stressed.

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Money Saving Mom’s Budget Book Review

As a long time reader and fan of Crystal Paine’s blog, I was looking forward to the release of her book, The Money Saving Mom’s Budget: Slash Your Spending, Pay Down Your Debt, Streamline Your Life, and Save Thousands a Year. I pre-ordered it for my Nook weeks before its release and read it quickly once it was available.

I don’t read MSM for the “deals” but rather for the inspiration. Crystal herself has an awesome story: she and her husband lived very frugally which enabled her to stay home and educate her kids while he went to law school (graduating with no debt), and several years later to pay cash for their home.

Crystal’s book isn’t a collection of tightwad tips. There are other books that do that. Rather this book focuses on teaching you principles that will carry you through making wise financial decisions and meeting your goals – whatever those look like for you as an individual.

For example, one of the first passages I highlighted was this one:

“Create a List of Your Personal Priorities.”

Umm.. okay. What does this have to do with saving money on groceries?

Actually, everything. Because money is so personal, how we choose to spend it is different from the people around us. Our spending should be based on our values. Knowing what your personal priorities are helps you decide where to start and where to focus your time.

Defining your priorities also makes it easier to meet your goals (and create new habits in support of those goals!). Trying to live cheaply without clearly defined goals is a bad idea. You need to have a goal in mind to motivate you and remind you of your priorities. In other words, know your “Why”.

 

A few themes I love about Money Saving Mom’s Budget:

  • The connection between clutter and finances. We know intuitively that they are connected. Crystal makes a great case for having a minimalist home and gives concrete examples of how to accomplish this.
  • Time is money. Don’t have a heart attack, but some frugal activities aren’t worth it! Especially if you do any work for pay, you need to know your hourly wage and don’t do things that don’t “pay” you enough. Unless you get lots of enjoyment out of them of course.
  • Saving time and personal productivity. Keeping the previous principle in mind, you’re more likely to be successful with your finances if you manage your time well. If you are organized with personal scheduling, you’ll also likely find blocks of time to earn more money. Win!
  • Budgeting basics. A budget has to be simple and realistic to work. Money Saving Mom’s Budget takes you step by step through the process of creating a budget that works for you – even a “bare bones” one to babystep you into it at first.

Of course, there are some “nitty gritty” tips in the book. A few I appreciate are:

  • Set up ongoing “clutter boxes” to contain clutter. Since it’s going to happen anyway, contain it so you can easily manage it. I began doing this in my basement, with a box for eBay and one for Goodwill. Instead of those things niggling at me constantly, I have more peace. When they get full I take action.
  • Pay bills annually for a discount. My husband and I are going to begin doing this for some of our bills. And I recently paid a couple of my business expenses in one lump sum for the year instead of monthly. Not only do you get a nice discount, but it also takes it off your mind for a very long time.  (And you only have one expense to enter into your bookkeeping instead of a dozen!)
  • Specific ideas for saving money on groceries without sacrificing health. Everyone has to eat. Food is usually our biggest expense after housing, and one that is easy to save money on with a few tweaks.
  • How to have fun on the cheap. There are great ideas for family fun as well as date nights. A frugal life without something budgeted for fun is not sustainable, can turn you into a big grump and lead to depression.

I only see one thing missing from Money Saving Mom’s Budget. There is a section of money making ideas but I was unimpressed with those, especially since I’ve seen excellent articles on Crystal’s blog about earning money. The internet has opened up a world of opportunities for moms who want to earn money from their skills while enjoying a flexible schedule. As a virtual assistant, writer (including ghostwriting, blogging, etc), crafter/Etsy seller or eBayer, a mom could dramatically increase her family’s income and reach some of her goals more quickly than by just focusing on the saving side. Maybe that will be the focus of another book. ;)

In a nutshell, Money Saving Mom’s Budget is an excellent all around primer for anyone who wants to improve their financial situation. As I mentioned, Crystal is an amazing example of someone who really walks her talk, money wise. As a successful blogger, mom and homeschooler, I really identify with her. What’s more, she comes across as so humble, genuinely sweet and approachable. You can’t help but like her, even when she’s giving you a little fiscal butt kickin’. :-)

The Money Saving Mom’s Budget: Slash Your Spending, Pay Down Your Debt, Streamline Your Life, and Save Thousands a Year deserves a place on your bookshelf.

 

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No Sit Sherlock

Have you been reading about the need to avoid too much sitting? There’s been a lot of research published in the last couple of years on this topic. Sitting is no longer viewed as just a passive-but-harmless thing, it’s more like a clear and present danger to our health.

 

Too Much Sitting Is Killing Us

Consider:

  • Too much sitting is bad for your health, increasing your risk of obesity, diabetes, heart disease, several cancers and early death, as well as reducing emotional well being – even if you exercise regularly.
  • It isn’t just that we aren’t burning enough calories when we sit. It’s that our bodies change in several unhealthy ways when we sit. Our metabolism, body chemistry and blood sugar change for the worse, and even our body composition is altered (storing more fat around the waist, which we know is the worst place to gain).

There are lots of great articles around based on the research of too much sitting’s deleterious effects. I’m not a doctor or scientist so I won’t try to explain them all. Suffice it to say that all the info coming from several studies recently has convinced me to alter my habits to reduce how often and how long I sit.

I feel very fortunate that I don’t have to work 8 hours a day sitting at a desk. (If I did, I would set an alarm to sound every hour so I could walk, do jumping jacks or stretch.) I’ve also made some lifestyle choices that limit sitting. For instance, not having TV means I don’t sit and watch it. I also walk every day for at least one mile.

Still, I do more sitting than I should. Some of the changes I’ve made in my routine:

  • I started doing more computer work standing up with my laptop on the kitchen counter. (I’m writing this post standing up.) Standing takes more work than sitting, and we’re almost never perfectly still when we stand. We shift from one leg to another, fidget, stand on our toes, lift our feet, etc.
  • Instead of always sitting on the sofa to read to the kids or play with the toddler, I often sit on the floor and stretch my legs. Most of us have very tight hamstrings from too much sitting and from wearing shoes with heels. It’s easy to put your legs into a wide “V” and stretch your thighs. Sitting tailor style is healthier than sitting on a soft cushy sofa. This is easy to do while you build block towers or do puzzles with the wee ones.
  • More squatting. Squatting is fabulous for pregnant women, but everyone in our culture should squat more. Many people have hamstrings so tight (again, from sitting too much and wearing shoes with heels) that they CAN’T squat without falling over. If you can’t squat, then you probably have several other problems (like back pain, plantar fascitis, even pelvic floor issues like pee sneezes) that could be helped by stretching your hamstrings and squatting.Katy Bowman has awesome information and videos on her site about squatting, avoiding too much sitting and just general body mechanics. I’ve learned so much from reading her blog. I have 3 of her exercise/stretching DVDs and they’re excellent. Start with this article about sitting on her site, then search the entire blog for the word “sitting” and read those if you want a biomechanical scientist’s perspective.
  • Breaking up periods of sitting with bursts of activity like housework. Sometimes sitting is inevitable. We drive in cars, sit to nurse a baby, sit to eat in a restaurant. Now a little alarm goes off in my head if I sit for too long, so I jump up and do a blitz of housework or take a short walk outside.

Just being more aware generally of staying active, not just while I’m exercising, has changed some of my habits. (I admit it’s been difficult to stay as active as I’d like during the early part of my pregnancy and I’m longing for the time when I feel like my usual self again.)

Have you been reading about the dangers of sitting? How do you counteract this in your daily life?

 

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Bits and Pieces

A few articles I appreciated from around the web this week…

- I LOVE Auntie Leila’s advice in “Seven Strategies For Dinner with the Barbarians”. In fact the whole series on family dinners is wonderful.

- Kitchen Stewardship has an amazing list of natural sunscreen reviews for your benefit.

- This post at Simple Homeschool on homeschooling through high school has some excellent advice resources. I saved this one in Evernote, since my oldest will be in 9th grade next year.

- I wrote an article at Family Foodies about feeding kids a healthy and varied lunch.

- OhioMoms published my tips on Greening Your Spring Cleaning.

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Bean Cure For Pregnancy Nausea: Final Thoughts

At 23 weeks, I’m finally over the worst part of pregnancy nausea and vomiting. It still sneaks up and hits me every once in awhile, especially in the evenings, but I’m usually able to ignore it and go about my life.

I had high hopes that the “Bean Cure” would indeed be a cure for me, but unfortunately it wasn’t. While it did seem to help some days to eat lots of beans, at other times I noticed no difference.

 

When talking this over with my midwife, her assistant and an apprentice, the general consensus of the 3 of them (with a total of several decades of combined experience as birth attendants) was that nothing “cures” morning sickness for most women. The best you can hope for is a little temporary relief. One mom who has had at least 8 babies herself said that something will “work for a little while, then stop working”. That’s been my experience too.

I’ve tried dozens of remedies for morning sickness in my pregnancies. I think many of them work by placebo or distraction. If your midwife tells you to eat a cinnamon Altoid every 10 minutes and you do it, it makes you feel empowered, like you’re “doing something” instead of being passive, and so it seems to help.

For me, the most effective treatment was keeping something on my stomach all the time. Unfortunately that means I tend to gain too much weight in my first trimester. Low blood sugar and odors are the biggest triggers, so I rearrange my life to manage the former and avoid the latter.

I DO think eating lots of beans in pregnancy is a great idea, however, and I’m glad I gave it a shot, for several reasons.

  • Eating lots of beans eliminated the constipation I always experience during pregnancy. This is no small thing!
  • Beans fill you up and provide a “slow burn” of sustained energy.
  • Beans are super cheap and healthy.
  • They’re low calorie so they probably help slow down unnecessary weight gain. I’m surprised noone has written a “Bean Diet” book yet. I bet if you ate beans with every meal you would effortlessly lose weight.

I always appreciated beans and ate them frequently, but they’ve become an even bigger part of my diet in recent months. We now eat a bean main dish twice a week in my house, which helps with the grocery budget.

Here are a few of my favorite bean eating tips:

  • With preparing and cooking beans, I find that slow is better. I rinse my dried beans, then soak them overnight or longer in water. Then I discard the soaking water and add new water to cook them. Then, I cook them in the slow cooker. This means there is almost always a pot of beans soaking or cooking in my kitchen. I’m ok with that. The slow method seems to eliminate gas. I never experience gas when eating beans.
  • Personally, I don’t care for lentils. I don’t like the flavor or the texture. But I have begun mixing them 50/50 with ground beef for our Taco Night. The kids noticed but nobody complained. It helps to season them heavily and mash them a little bit before adding them to the cooked ground beef, then add a little water and simmer it together. I’m going to try this with chili too. I don’t mind seasoned lentils on top of rice topped with cheese.
  • Try serving beans as a side dish with whatever else you’re serving. Pinto beans are my family’s favorite, and they go well with rice, any corn based dish, and vegetables. A big pot of pintos and cornbread is a simple but satisfying meal (the corn plus beans provides complete protein). Lima beans and blackeyed peas go well with veggies too. Having a big pot of beans in the fridge all the time is a great way to fill up hungry teenagers inexpensively.
  • Learn to make your own refried beans. They’re super cheap and healthier than the store bought versions. I don’t follow a recipe for this. I simply take pinto beans and mash them with cooked onions (or onion powder if I’m lazy or short on time), garlic (or garlic powder), salt and pepper and whatever fat I’ve got on hand – lard, butter, olive oil, chicken fat, whatever. I like mine with a bit of texture so I don’t puree them, but pureed beans would be a great dip with chips, or food for a baby or toddler.
  • Did you know you can add pureed beans to brownies? Yep. I used pureed chickpeas in a blondie recipe, and it was yummy. You can add pureed black beans to brownies. It reduces the fat and adds nutrition and fiber. This is a great option if you don’t care for beans.
  • Beans go great in soup. Obvious choices are chili and bean soup, but almost any vegetable soup does well with the addition of beans. Add white beans, chickpeas or lentils to vegetable soups. Puree them if you don’t like the texture, and it adds a creaminess and bulk that makes the soup more filling, without meat. Minestrone soup requires beans, as does Italian Wedding soup. One of my family’s favorite recipes is Sausage, Bean and Kale soup. The recipe is featured in the Everything Beans cookbook, which I love.

What are some of your favorite ways to eat beans? I’m looking for a great black bean burger recipe so if you have one please share!

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